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The Poison of Fear

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Fear is that poison which works undetected. It's effect is so insidious that goes abut killing whatever gets in it's way and you don't even realize it. Fear gets you to cling on to things, and people and in the very clinging you push those away. Fear gets you to want control by force and control is what you lose. Fear provokes you to be angry, jealous, greedy. Fear makes you hurtful & mean, pushing people away.

The thing which makes fear a silent killer is that - fear also feeds your rational mind with logic and data. You keep rationalizing. You have data to prove your logic. It makes you appear very calm and sensible and logical and rational. And you never see the fear hiding behind the curtain of cognitive reasoning.

Undetected, it continues to spread its poison, never realizing how much has been killed by fear. You go on blaming, others, blaming things, blaming events/circumstance, even blaming yourself.. when in reality it is the fear that should be staking claim to its victories - but it never does.

The only cure, the only antidote to this poison is for you to first remove the camouflage that this fear hides behind, become aware, become conscious and look this fear in its eyes and then tell this fear - you have faith, you have trust - in yourself, in nature, in your version of God or Godliness.

Do what needs to be done - but stop living in and with this fear. It will kill you and everything you hold dear.

Awaken your consciousness now!

Wishing you a marvelous & beautiful relationship & an outstanding & fulfilling life.

Author - Anil D Dagia, ICF Credentialed Coach (PCC), NLP Trainer member of ANLP, UK, Foremost NLP Trainer in Mumbai & Pune (India).

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